My website it officially online and I am booking sessions, on the phone, skype and in real time. I get many requests for many different things (see My previous blog on facesitting). One of the activities men seem to particularly enjoy is anal play, involving butt plugs, strap-on, etc. Fun stuff! I love bending a man over and taking him like a little bitch; powerful, emasculating, demeaning...the things FemDomme dreams are made of! However, before I can show you one of the many things I do better than a man, is pound a hole, there are some things that must be considered.
1. Do be clean, Don't be lazy!
When Dommes tell you to be clean, we don't mean take a shower. I mean DO take a shower, but We expect you to go the extra mile when you know you'll be doing anal play, go to the pharmacy and buy an enema, please flush yourself out before I go in. Not to make sure you are clean down there before anal play, shows a lack of respect, laziness and an overall lack of cleanliness. When I'm pounding you with My dildo I assume you are clean, I don't like being surprised with fecal matter on My strap-on, belt or clothing. By the way if a Domme says "do you have to go to the bathroom" while she is fucking you, you have fucked up and failed anal play 101!
2. Do be honest, Don't be shy!
There seem to be three different types men, they can be differentiated by how they respond to one question, "have you done anal before". There are the seldom few that are honest, what a breath of fresh air, there are the virgins and there are the super hos. Let Me break it down, if I ask you what your experience level is and you tell Me you are a virgin, I'm going to prepare My smallest toys, I will expect to start very slowly and build My way up over subsequent sessions. So When the virgins arrive in My dungeon and I go to enter a finger and My whole arm slides in, I kinda know somethings up, at this point I don't have the appropriate toys prepared and most importantly I know you are a big slutty liar! Now there are the super hos, they have had the biggest dildos, butt plugs, baseball bats, football teams in their ass, "Domina, I want your biggest dildo, and I want you to fuck Me hard and without mercy". What am I to do but to prepare My biggest toys and expect this slut to be ready to fuck after a very brief warm up, a little less foreplay if you will. So when this super ho gets here and he has a tight little barely fucked hole and he's clenching down on My finger out of fear, I'm going to be disappointed, let's face it I wanted to pound some bo-gina and once again I'm going to know you are a big pansy ass liar! Guys, Dommes aren't judging you, We don't prefer one type over another, both virgins and sluts can be fun, just be honest so We know what to expect in order to insure W/we both have the best time possible.
3. Do be realistic, Don't be a hero
This point is really something you have to come to terms with, within yourself and it is really an extension of point number 2. If you haven't had much experience with anal play, or it's been a while since you've been used like the slut you are, don't expect your Domina/Mistress to be able to fist you the first time She sees you. Yes, your ass stretches, yes it can accommodate very large things, VERY large things, with the right preparation, but it does take preparation. You wont be able to walk in a dungeon and be bent over and have a king dong shoved inside you as soon as you walk in unless you really are a super ho! Remember "Safe, sane, consensual" it is your Domina/Mistress's responsibility to keep you safe, giving you anal fissures and hemorrhoids is not safe.
4. Do relax, Don't stress
So you are in the hands of a skilled Domme (this also means She has put condoms on every instrument She is using in you), you have been honest with Her and you are clean as a whistle, now is not the time to clench your ass up! Obviously this is advice for the novice; if you are clean, you have no fear anything will come out, if you trust that your Domme is skilled and experienced, She will have warmed you up properly, and you have given total disclosure as to your anal play experience, She will be thoughtful in choosing what instrument to fuck your dirty (not really dirty, W/we have discussed this!) little hole. If you clench up on Her as She is entering you, you will cause yourself undo and unnecessary pain/discomfort. Let it happen, relax, if she is having a really hard time entering you, try to push down a bit, this will help you stretch. This is the ONLY time I want you to be relaxed in My presence, otherwise I want you trembling with anticipation and a soupçon of fear!
5. Do participate, Don't be a dead lay!
Guys, do you like when you are doing your damndest to make a girl cum, pounding away with everything you have, moving your hips, rocking and rolling, trying to bring all the motion to the ocean, and she is laying there, half dead or asleep? Didn't think so. Move bitch! I don't want you bent over grabbing your ankles saying "oh fuck Me Domina, harder Domina, I'm a slut Domina", whatever dude! you want to be fucked hard?! you want to be fucked like a bitch?! you want Me deep inside you?! Arch your back, move your hips, take My dick and stroke it with your pussy! I'm the Domme, trust Me, I work hard enough making sure W/we have fun, you do some of the work! There are plenty of sluts who want My dick, His name is Jamal, My dildo that is, and he wont want to fuck you if you are a cold fish!
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