Showing posts with label BDSM. Show all posts
Showing posts with label BDSM. Show all posts

Sunday, 13 March 2016

The psyche of the submissive male

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I recently recieved a request to offer insight into the male psyche. Of course I cannot offer a  first hand account  because I am neither male and not particularly submissive. Of course I have encountered many submissive males and in My experience they are motivated  by six  world views/perspectives. They are not necessarily mutually exclusive and sometimes function  in concert. The type A personality in Me wants to be able to list them in a particular order based on prevalence, preference, etc but prevalence is difficult to discern and I have no true preference. All this to say they are listed in no particular order.
#1 The Lover of Women.
This is a male who simply loves Women, all Women; BBW, slender, short, tall, etc. he thinks Women are beautiful creatures Who are deserving of adoration, reverence, worship and service.  he particularly appreciates the dominant Woman because She realizes  this as well and takes full advantage of Her gender status to reap the benefits. he serves because he loves to please his Goddess and see Her well contented. he needs an expressive Domme Who expresses Her pleasure with what he does for Her.

#2 The Female Supremacist
Easily mistaken for The True Lover of Women. However, he not only realizes how wondrous, beautiful and exquisite Woman are, but also believes Women are superior to men in many or all ways. he feels it is his duty as the inferior gender to serve his Superiors. he also looks to the Superior Female to hone him into a more pleasing, gentile individual despite the shortcomings of his gender. he serves because it is his rightful place and duty as a man to submit to the Superior Female. he needs a Domme Who will train him and instruct him in how to control his animalistic male drives and put Her needs above his own.

#3 The Inferior Individual, not to be mistaken for, the Female Supremacist. The inferior individual feels inferior to All, it is his sexual orientation that determines to Whom he will submit. he feels grateful to have a dominant Female to make his worthless existence worthwhile. he is apologetic by nature, he derives self-esteem and purpose from how useful and pleasing he is to his Domina. he serves because he would be nothing without his Domme. he needs a Domme that will give clear instructions, so as to better insure his success. his ideal Domina understands the difference between pride/arrogance and self-esteem  and will foster the latter in Her slave,  knowing he will serve best when he has confidence in his ability to serve Her.

#4 The True submissive, often  thought to have similar deficits in self-esteem to the inferior,    is in fact quite confident in their ability to serve. he choses to serve because it fulfils and pleases him. he gets pleasure  from giving his Domme pleasure through his service. he is not prone to giving his Mistress a laundry list of his wants.  In fact he is versatile in that he derives pleasure from a variety of activities; domestic, pain play, etc. he needs a Domina Who knows what She wants, because he'll do almost anything. The Domina for him is always in control  knowing Her slave is happiest when he is being dominated.

#5 The Dominant on Vacation, is the antithesis of the true submissive. This "submissive"  is  typically dominant at work and sometimes even in their interpersonal relationships. he serves because it is a welcome vacation from domming everyone around him. This so called submissive will not likely serve extensively, they are merely taking a vacation from giving orders by taking orders. For once they don't have to anticipate the next move, because their Mistress is doing it for them. This "submissive"  serves in order to have a reprieve from their responsibilities and daily stressors. This "submissive" needs a strong Mistress Who will put them in their place and shut down any attempts they will make to top from the bottom.

#6 The Paraphiliac/Masochist isn't necessarily submissive, he is submissive to his fixation on his paraphilia or the desire to recieve pain. Regarding paraphilia, in some cases it begins quite simply with shoes, for instance, progressing to a fixation on the foot, then the leg and eventually the actual wearer of the shoes; the Female who dominates him with Her shoes. Regarding masochism, the masochist desires pain and subsequently the dominant Female giving pain. In both cases the "submissive" serves the Domme in order to recieve the desired object/body part or pain. This "submissive" needs a Domme familiar with fetish, Who knows how to introduce a broader spectrum of interests,  stemming from the Paraphilia, in order to also see to Her desires.  The masochist needs a very sadistic Domina who will push their physical and mental pain threshold.

So there you  have it. As I said these world views/ perspectives are not mutually exclusive and in most cases would probably be best illustrated in a Venn diagram, a little from column , a little from column b, so to speak.

Furthermore,  it is worthwhile to mention that while I describe the ideal Domme for each submissive,  ideally he would look for a dynamic Domina who  can adapt Her style, while maintaining Her unique identity as a Dominant, in order to  get the best out of Her  property.

Of course there are male submissives who will argue  they don't have any of the aforementioned perspectives. If that is the case I ask them to contact Me and enlighten Me further on the psyche of the submissive male.....

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Tuesday, 8 September 2015

Humiliation

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I recently did a wonderful call on Talk to me where a caller wanted Me to be his self-deprecating, chastising conscience. I've never done a call or a session like that before; the power of being someone's inner voice made Me swoon. I think that was the most fun I've had humiliating someone over the phone.
Humiliation is a very personal thing.One of My pet peeves? When a client books a session and says I want to be humiliated. Hello? How?? Which is not to say I'm am not a skilled Dominatrix, Humiliatrix and psychological Sadist. However, if I am not familiar with you, how am I to know what makes you feel shame?
  • Forced Feminization
  • Forced Bi
  • Puppy Play
  • Diaper Play
  • Small Penis Humiliation
  • OTK Spanking
  • Foot Worship
  • Toilet Play
  • Forniphilia
  • Ass Smotheringor
  • Orgasm Denial/Control
  • Cuckhold Fantasies
  • Financial Domination
  • Blackmail
  • Verbal Humiliation
    •  Racial Slurs
    • SPH
    • Names like,Loser, Moron, idiot, Worthless,Wimp, etc
    • Slut, Bitch, Whore, Cum Dumpster, etc
And this list goes on...
My point being, what works for one may not work for the other. I love humiliating men, even to the point of tears, but if you want to get there, that thrilling feeling of shame and arousal that you yearn for , you have to be honest with yourself and of course with Me.
Ironically, you can't be ashamed of what makes you ashamed or turns you on. Be honest with your Domina, if she is the right Domme for you She wont judge you for what you desire, but when the time is right She will make you feel emasculated, humiliated, belittled, ashamed and oh, so turned on...

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Friday, 12 June 2015

The Art of the Mind Fuck


When still a baby, the elephant is tethered by a very thick rope to a stake firmly hammered into the ground. The elephant tries several times to get free, but it lacks the strength to do so.
After a year, the stake and the rope are still strong enough to keep a small elephant tethered, although it continues to try, unsuccessfully, to get free. At this point, the animal realizes that the rope will always be too strong and so it gives up.
When it reaches adulthood, the elephant can still remember how, for a long time, it had wasted its energies trying to escape captivity. At this stage, the trainer can tether the elephant with a slender thread tied to a broom handle, and the elephant will make no attempt to escape to freedom. - Paulo Coelho
The same theory can be applied to psychological domination, once you control the mind, the body will follow. What's more, psychological domination creates a bond between Domme and slave/sub that is so deep, so intimate, so powerful that it is beyond reason. You see, sex in an intimate act, in part because your partner is inside you, or you inside them, therefore imagine what can result when a Fem Domme is in your deepest most intimate parts, not just your sweet little fuck hole, but your mind and soul.
Psychological domination can take many forms, blackmail, humiliation, hypnosis,among other things. Yet the process is usually the same, the skillful Fem Domme seduces, manipulates, torments and controls you, not with physical pain or restraint but by knowing your deepest desires, fears and needs. In some cases She will make you feel as though she can read your mind, you'll feel that you no longer have control of yourself, you'll do and say things, things that are out of character, things that you did not want to do, things you said you'd never do, and you wont know why. 
The reason? Your Domme is not just mind fucking you, she is mind r@ping you. you have relinquished all your control without even knowing it, you'll be emptying accounts, begging for a big hard dick, drinking your Mistress' golden champagne or going to work with a pair of panties under your suit. Anything is possible when you are serving a Divine Goddess that is skilled in the art of the mind fuck, so beware!
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Tuesday, 23 December 2014

Jingle...Balls?! (CBT)



 
 
Little is as precious to a man as his cock and balls are, at best his wallet comes a close second (see My blog on financial domination). This is why I love cbt so much, as you know, if you are a consistent reader of My blogs I have a very cerebral perspective of BDSM and My perspective of cbt is much the same.
As you may know I identify as a sadist, I TRULY enjoy making men suffer either psychological or physical, ideally both.
With cbt I get to bring a man to his knees with a gutteral groan by kicking, punching, kneeing, pinching, flogging, cropping, squeezing, squishing, stomping or burning ( with wax, the violet wand, or for true masochists after my own heart, cigarettes) his cock and balls. Watching a man's eyes well up with tears as I abuse the very essence of their maleness, is one of the most erotic pleasures I enjoy. Cbt can even be pleasurable when, due to geographical constraints, I am forcing a man to punish his own "jewels" over the phone or skype.
The psychological aspect of cbt lays in My belief that men greatly cherish their cock and balls; they symbolize, virility, manhood, identity, power and self-esteem. Conversley, I believe Women derive their identity from their sexuality not their sex organs. This is why men are so fearful, powerless, vulnerable and submissive when a Woman truly has them by the balls. To have a man's cock and balls in My hand, at My mercy is true ownership and power.....mmmm what an aphrodisiac.
 
Happy Holidays and Let's hope you "jingle all the way"
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Friday, 14 November 2014

Goddess Worship, Then and Now

"One of the first religions developed by humans was Goddess worship. Much archaeological evidence have been unearthed which prove the existence of Goddess worship. Merlin Stone, in When God Was a Woman, notes, "Archaeologists have traced the worship of the Goddess back to the Neolithic communities of about 7000 BC, some to the Upper Paleolithic cultures of about 25,000 BC. From the time of its Neolithic origins, its existence was repeatedly attested to until well into Roman times,"
 
The most convincing evidence of Goddess worship comes from numerous sculptures of pregnant women, or faceless women depicted having exaggerated breasts, hips, thighs, buttocks and vulva. These images are referred to by archaeologists as Venus figurines...
These images were not mere decorations to the people who created them. They were profoundly important because they represented the ways which humans expressed themselves before they began to utilise language. The art reveals what the cultures valued and the knowledge they tried to pass on to future generations. Clearly, childbirth, mothering and female sexuality were considered sacred...."(http://coven-of-midnight.wikidot.com/history-of-goddess-worship)
  * Italics are not part of the original script and have been added for emphasis.

Society in general no longer gives the Female the reverence She so richly deserves. Yet a relatively small group of men and Women, still feel that Women should be placed on a pedestal and revered. Female Supremacists, both men and Women, still ensure Women get the respect they warrant as the Mother's of the earth. As a Female Supremacist I believe Women are supreme beings, that should be adored, revered and worshipped. Furthermore, I believe it is the divine duty and privilege of men to serve Women, particularly in this manner.

How should a Female be worshipped? I find it over simplified and self-serving for men to suggest that Women should be served solely through the oral pleasure of Her breasts, vagina, and buttocks/anus, for these are not truly  the most intimate parts of a Female. Serve Me psychologically with  your  most intimate parts, your brain; render your service with devotion, your heart. Perhaps, this is too cerebral or abstract for some men to digest when faced with a Divine Goddess.

 Thus, I will describe the means in which I like to be worshipped in plainer words; bathe my feet with devotion, focus and dedication ( I wrote a blog on foot worship, it will afford you a better idea as to why I think this is such a meaningful act). Wash My hair, brush it, scent it with oils, run My bath, sit subserviently by as I bathe, apply My lotion, all without thinking of your own primal drives and needs.

Show My Divine body, My temple, the reverence it so richly deserves, in a manner which shows Me you respect and idolise Me and you serve without thought for your own needs, desires and drives. Then perhaps you will earn My respect and devotion in turn, and I will allow you the privilege of knowing my more "intimate" parts, of both the soul and the body.

In the end, your great reward will not be the meaningless act of kissing My Superior ass but knowing that you have earned your place down on your knees encountering the Greatness of the Female essence.

I'm Royal, I'm Royalty, Get in to it,
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Thursday, 23 October 2014

Verbal Humiliation


I love humiliating submissives and slaves in a variety of different ways, puppy training, anal training, forced fem; I love to see a sub's eyes fill with tears of shame and their face redden with embarrassment. However, my favorite type of humiliation is verbal, when I get on the phone with or stand before a submissive and rip him to shreds with just My words I feel and immense, electric form of power (lest we forget power is an aphrodisiac).

When I start going on a tirade...."you are such a cock hungry filthy slut you make me sick, you cumdumpster, waiting for My big black strap-on to rape your holes....." or "you little sissy bitch with your pathetic little teeny weeny, you'll never be able to satisfy a real Woman..." or " you peon, you should be lucky to cower before greatness and beg forgiveness for being a worthless man...", the possibilities are endless, as I lash you with My sharp tongue playing both to your desires and your deepest darkest shames and fears.

Whether you are a sissy slut, cuckhold, a bitch with a small dick or any other form of man who deserves to be shamed into submission, I love mind fucking you until you aren't sure whether you are turned on or victimized. However, I will know it is a potion concocted of both, a Divine potion that will leave you in your rightful place and wanting more!

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Thursday, 7 August 2014

Bad Boys Need NOT Apply

A lot of people want to know what it takes to have the opportunity to serve this Divine Goddess as a personal submissive/slave .

  •  Step #1: I lose a lot of the fakes, wannabes (but never were's) and slackers at this stage. you have to write an essay about past experience, training, fetishes, expectations, qualifications, etc. Grammar and spelling count.
  • Step #2: you receive My rules. Such rules include and are NOT limited to: you must ask permission before socializing, you will walk behind Me in public, you will keep yourself in shape, masturbation and orgasm are a privilege that are earned, etc
  • Step #3: you must begin to follow the rules. Any failure without sufficient cause to follow My rules means that training will not be continued and  you have not earned My consideration.
  • Step #4 Training. This means you have earned My consideration and I am willing to invest time and energy on you in order to try and mold you into the submissive/slave that I want you to be.
  • Step #5 if I am pleased with your progress I will claim you as My own, at which point you will write out a budget of your earnings and expenses and I will calculate how much I expect from you each month. Remember, socializing is a privilege as is imbibing. In other words, if you can't make Me happy by tributing then you cannot afford to go for a beer with the guys or a margarita with the girls!
  • Step #6 Don't fuck up! ....
Learn what I like, what I want, what I need. Follow the rules to the point of obsession. Never agree to something you cannot do, but also realize I HATE hearing the word NO. I loathe lazy, inconsistent, flighty,cheap, stubborn, inconsiderate, unintelligent, neglectful, insubordinate submissives/slaves. you signed up for this, I did not wind up on your doorstep and order you to enlist like the united states army! I will not shower you with compliments for remembering how I like My coffee, that is the bare minimum. Compliments are earned, with unexpected treats, surprises and luxuries or outstanding service
you're not going to have sex with Me or go down on Me, you are not My boyfriend, you are My property, jealousy is unattractive, a jealous sub is just plain confused.
You must be honest and open, I am not a mind reader, if you want something or do not like something you have to tell Me. you must trust Me and earn My trust in return. Here's a little secret, I am not made of stone, if you have made it this far, I am probably fond of you and would like you to remain a part of my life, I want us both to enjoy our relationship and have fun...shhhh do not let word get out...

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Thursday, 31 July 2014

Foot Fetish


The Symbolism of Feet
"Feet represent mobility, independence and freedom. The act of washing someone's feet symbolizes  that others can easily take advantage of you. If someone is kissing your feet, then it symbolizes humbleness, humility, or devotion.  The desire to smell someone else's feet may symbolize  that you are following someone else's path in life. The notion of smelling feet may also carry the same interpretation of kissing feet. In some cultures the feet may symbolize divine qualities since the feet are considered the holiest part of the body."

Why I love Foot Worship
As you can see the act of foot worship is wrought with meaning and symbolism. My feet are My divine grounding, My unwavering roots, My foundation from which My Divine dominating essence arises. To place your self before me on your knees, a most subservient position, in most cultures, you are submitting to My desires, completely devoting and humbling yourself to Me. By washing my feet you are committed to the maintenance of My Divinity. By desiring to smell My feet, (particularly after they are sweating and odoriferous)  you are expressing your desire to follow Me, allowing your path to veer into My path, committing your self to follow wherever I shall lead. By kissing , licking and suckling My feet and toes you are paying homage to a Goddess. The act of foot worship symbolizes your acknowledgement that I am Divine, BDSM royalty and the you are my beloved minion. Thusly, to worship a Goddess' feet is a very intimate, romantic, sensual act wrought with meaning and giving you purpose.

For all you boot and shoe worshipers, I sell My worn shoes and boots, I can make them smelly for you if that's what gets you the most excited, email Me if you are interested.



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Sunday, 18 May 2014

Giddy up bitch!

I love riding a bitch boi's ass like a cowboy. Hog tying him down, putting a leash around his neck and making him wait. Oh the wait is the best part. As a step into my red and black leather strap-on belt, and reach for Jamal, yes my strap-on has a name, he is big and black, long and stiff and can go all night. I'm going to get Jamal in place, get an extra large and tuff condom on him, it never fits just right, Jamal is to beastly to be contained some times. As the bitch boi is hog tied to the table with his knees spread really wide, I'll mount my pet. I've been horse back riding many years but riding a boi like a horse is even more fun. I like to start off slow get you opened up, "you like that don't ya bitch?" the bois usually wriggle on the table, cock loving queers deep down inside. As I insert my lubed up beast in your tight ass hole, slowly inch by inch, smacking your ass hard from time to time just to catch you unaware and thrust it deeper. once the bois ass is all lubed up and he is writhing with pleasure, that's when the fun really starts. Giddy up bitch boy, grabbing your leassh and yanking your head back, "yeehaw!" I ride those bitches hard and deep, "come on slut, you LOOOOOVVVE it!". I ride them until their wet, maybe they wont be the only one whose moist.....

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Thursday, 3 October 2013

Premature humiliation

I have a regular client,  he is infatuated with Me as a Domme and gratefully submits himself to  all of my commands.....except one, "you will not cum so quickly this time"
It's always the same enjoyable story, he presents himself to Me, nude and begins worshiping My feet and calves, "Whap" strikes 1,  I slap his face " do not touch your pathetic cock" . he continues to worship my feet and calves as I strut around the room, crawling behind Me on the floor will keep his hands busy... Until I pause for a moment and catch him wanking....then comes a barrage of face slaps, left cheek, right cheek, left cheek right cheek, until his ears are ringing and his face is beet red. Some times I opt for some flogging, sometimes more foot worship and when I'm feeling particularly cruel I'll take him with My strap on.....why is that particularly cruel? Because it makes it even more difficult to control himself. you may ask, "Domina, why don't you cuff his hands?" The answer is simple, after 10 minutes he usually cums and after paying for an hour of My precious time AND the humiliation of not being able to control himself in My company (after being My regular for so long) causes the most pathetic, shamed, discouraged look to spread across his face as he scurries from My presence and that look makes My Domme neurons fire

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Monday, 5 August 2013

Sadistic Saturday had come again

When you live in a dungeon and you and your Mother are Dominatrixs a relaxing Saturday takes on a whole new meaning.

This Saturday We invited a sub over for a special treat. We started by cuffing him to the St. Andrew's Cross and for flogging. We each choose Our instrument of choice I quickly choose a flogger that is appreciatively nicknamed the stinger, I didn't want Mistress Brown Sugah to get the stinger before I did. Small and unassuming the stinger, not only stings like a mother but leaves pretty speckled purple streaks on the subs body, that make My Domina heart go pitter patter. Sugah started warming up the skin with a thick leather whip, a beautiful that grips the skin. Once the subs skin was a flushed health red it was time to move on.

The spanking bench at the Sugah Shack is a great tool, you can cuff hands and feet to it, the sub is thus powerless with their ass in the air, a very alluring sight to a True Sadistic Heart. We started with wooden paddles on his ass, but wanting to switch things up,  We moved on to a heavy wooden hair brushes and wooden spoons. I threw down a great beat with my wooden spoons, one in each hand. Next, the wooden hair brush left big red oblong shaped welts, I love to see the different reactions skin has to a Domme's weapons of mass destruction! Then the alcohol came, Sugah love's to gives sub's a nice spritz of alcohol on their battered skin, not only does it disinfect but it offers the subs abused ass a plethora of different sensations.

Finally came spanking, not much of a spanker Myself the challenge came for Me by trying to keep up with Mistress Brown Sugah's hands of steel. I've seen people beg Mistress Sugah for a spanking and very soon after beg Her to stop, I've yet to meet a sub that could withstand Mistress Brown Sugah's hands without having first developed a very tough ass! The subs challenge was simply to make it through to the end. Sugah would swat the sub "1,2", in turn I would smack "1,2", Sugah would swat the sub up and down I would swat up and down and so on. Thankfully, the sub begged for mercy just before I had to, My hands were hot and red, though not as hot and red as his ass. I'm going to have to book myself more spanking sessions to I can build up some tenacity, maybe I'll start light......is anyone up for an hour of face slapping?

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Monday, 22 July 2013

Vacuum bed


This Saturday, I decided to grab a coffee and peak in on Mistress Sugah's class. There was a demonstration of our new vacuum bed. A very willing, playful sub was already in the bed. We started with him laying face up in the bed, once we had him there We were at a bit of a loss of what to do with him, trampling or maybe queening but We were all in a much more sadistic mood, so we had him go face down in the bed. Once face down he had his back and ass exposed to Us and the vacuum bed had him pretty much immobile. That's when We started flogging him, "the sting is gone Mistress, I feel the impact but not the sting". Challenge accepted!! We starting by using heavier floggers and crops to no avail. Then we moved on to more rigid instruments, a long shoehorn, Manhattan Correction Stick and Acrylic Paddles, the sting was back. The slave's ass was getting heated and he was starting to "feel the burn", no pain no gain after all. Then I found it, a small wooden paddle, a very unassuming compact piece that fit perfectly in My hand. A few light swats, paced perfectly to allow the sting from the prior stroke to linger. That small tool did a lot of damage, and I loved it. Walking around the bed for an hour choosing My perfect position, so as to evenly abuse his ass. I was thrilled to see what his ass looked like under the layer of shiny black latex. He tried to wriggle and writhe away from My punishment, restricted by the vacuum bed, but there was no where to run. After an hour or more watching him emerge from the bed was a thrill, like unwrapping a Christmas present. His ass wasn't as beat up as I had hoped, that thin sheet of latex was quite the protection. I'll get him better next time, can't wait to see what emerges from the bed then!
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Wednesday, 17 July 2013

Forced Feminization

Had a forced-fem session yesterday. I love turning macho men into girly-girls, baby-girls, housewives, sissy-maids and the like. Whether for humiliation purposes, or to help them get in touch with their inner female, powerful in her sexuality and femininity and yet having to overcome archaic notions of a weak damsel in distress.
We started with make-up, I decided this boy was going to get turned in to a bitch, a classy, sassy woman that oozes sexuality and knows how to use it. I had to hide his 5-o'clock shadow with a stage-makeup cover up, I highlighted his cheekbones, thinned his nose and narrowed the square manly edges of his forehead. Next I did a smokey eye, in various shades of blues and charcoals. I then applied eyeliner to give him seductive almond shaped eyes and thickening lengthening mascara.
Next was the hair, I choose a shoulder length dark bob that was both classy and edgy and mussed it up, just like a girl going to party with her girlfriends would, hair that said "I have a wild side".
Next was the clothing; I choose sheer black thigh high stockings with lace, lacy black Fredrick's of Hollywood panties (My favorite), a leather mini-skirt and a black pvc corset and black patent leather stilettos.
Sitting in front of me was a girl, but we all know that what makes a woman is how she walks, talks and moves. First speaking lessons. In order to train the bitch in front of me to speak like a girl I had him count and say thank you Domina and  administered a severe flogging, "1, thank you Domina", "2, thank you Domina" once we had arrived at 50 my creation's voice was sufficiently feminine.
Next was posture, I had him parade around the room in his stilettos with a book on his head. I kept the stride rhythm with a paddle against my palm, a stumble would warrant a strike with my paddle. He struggles most with walking with an elegant lady like stride, this lesson took more than an hour.
Walking in high-heeled shoes requires rhythm so I but on some music. Sometimes when a sissy slut gets a feel for his newly shaped hips and long elegant legs they carry themselves with more poise. So I put my two favorite forced-fem training songs, Brick House and Walk This  Way, on repeat and sat back to watch a burlesque show. Stilted and awkward at first his movements began to flow more, become more smooth intentional and seductive. Whether smoking a cigarette, strolling down the block or sipping Chardonnay, a true Woman's every move is intentional and deliberate, we are Mistresses of seduction.
By the four hour mark my pupil was coming along nicely but no where near feminine enough to have Me put on My strap-on. We'll see how the next lesson goes and maybe if he makes some improvement he will warrant some training  in the art of giving fellatio and "taking IT" like a woman. Stay Tuned

I'm Royal, I'm Royalty, Get in to it
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Sunday, 30 June 2013

Girl's night.....

A close and personal friend of mine has been interested in BDSM, namely Female Supremacy for some time. She was always of the mindset that BDSM from the Female Supremacist point of view was too extreme to be enjoyed between loving committed couples. She felt it would be difficult to respect and love someone you've dominated. I've written on this and My deep respect for the male sub/slave in previous posts.
This topic was recently revisited between Her and I after Her partner mentioned to Her that he was very intrigued and somewhat excited by what I do and My BDSM interests. he also suggested to Her that  She come to Me for some pointers as to how the could spice up their sex life."I think I'll just pay for him to have a session with You", "you could do that, but teach a Woman to fish...". I told Her I could teach Her a few tricks to add a little spice to her "vanilla" life. We went over a few activities, convinced she "just couldn't" I came up with another idea.....
 This weekend we got together and lured invited her boyfriend into a world of fantasy. I had Her prep Our tools, tie and blindfold Her boyfriend to the bed, I know a bit corny but very practical nonetheless. When I came into the room worry and excitement flashed on his face. "Nothing to crazy eh girls?!" We both laughed, she took instruction quite well, never let them know what you have up your sleeve.
We started with some ice cube play, which he liked, tracing not the MOST intimate places, but the places that border them. The candles already lit, I handed Her one and kept one for Myself. Her boyfriend or not, She couldn't have all the fun. We started drizzling his torso and thighs with the warm wax, at varying heights. Then, We moved in on his nipples, balls and dick. I love wax play, varying the intensity, invoking moans of both pain and pleasure. "Okay enough" he said, My friend wanted to stop but I kept on drizzling the wax on his trembling body. I decide when the toy has had enough.
I decided to step back and let them have some couple time while She picked the hardened wax from his body, I had something in store for him and I didn't want him to have any protection against one of My favorite tools.
I turned on my Violet wand, being a novice I didn't use My metal pieces on him but only My glass attachments. Their eyes both lit up, fear? Anticipation? I'm uncertain but their expressions thrilled Me nonetheless. I had My fun, the sight of the purple gases coursing through My apparatus, the smell and the sound. He chuckled at first contact, "it tickles", so I turned it up.. it didn't tickle anymore. I let My friend have a turn, cautioning Her not to let the tool touch his body but to let the charge conduct. I could tell from Her face She loved it and from his physical "reaction" he was enjoying himself too.
Next I encouraged Her to begin biting him while I clawed and scratched at his quivering body. his nerves were raw, a strong gust of wind could have caused a sensation overload.
What more could I have done? Oh I know plenty, I could've made him, cry, beg, scream, I could've flogged him, caned him, showered him in Domina's golden Champagne....However, I wanted to leave them both wanting for more. With a deep desire to learn, explore and experience more.
I left them to engage in some sweet, sensual "aftercare", as vanilla or kinky as they choose. I'm waiting for Her update to tell Me how the rest of the night went. I'm sincerely hoping they kept the lights on and yet kept things very dark....

I'm Royal, I'm Royalty, Get in to it
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Monday, 10 June 2013

Extreme Nipple Play

Yesterday I another intense session. My willing plaything was into extreme nipple torture.....
I began with some light flogging, I love the sound, the feel and the sight of a flogger dancing gracefully in My hands, almost as much as I love the delicious red welts that arise on My toy's skin. I was wearing a sexy pair of black leather thigh high boots, just newly back from My personal slave's loving care, polished and shining. My toy licked kissed and sucked every inch of My Divine boots, what a lucky boy! On to the nipple torture, I began by pinching and pulling his nipples, until they were ready for more, next it was nipple clamps. I wasn't having the desired painful effect so I added weights and gently lifted them and let them swing side to side, sometimes a little effort equals a lot of pain. Once his nipples were tender from My games, I started drizzling them with hot wax, coming closer and closer to his skin with the candle until I could practically smell his chest hair singing LOL Never one to leave a mess behind I beat all the wax off with My riding crop, watching the wax crack, split and crumble to the floor, revealing his red tortured nipples. Wanting to add insult to injury, I had the little piggy lay beneath Me as I embedded the heel of My boot into his tender nipples. "Domina, this loser longs to suffer for You and only you", I never need permission to delve deep in to My Sadism but I wanted to make him suffer for his words, he hadn't even begun to suffer.......I went on to give him a glimpse at what true suffering was, a lesson he wont soon forget.

I'm Royal, I'm Royalty, Get into it
Domina Dolce Divinity
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Saturday, 18 May 2013

Mother, Daughter Time

Mistress Brown Sugah and I did a duo today. Our famous Mother, Daughter tag team was in fine form. It's rare I get to do such an intense corporal session, though I do enjoy them immensely. The task? An unlimited amount of hits with an unlimited array of tools. We began by warming the flesh up and then the punishment began, hit after hit, taking turns as the skin went from pink to an angry red. Then time for a rousing game of table tennis. Mistress Brown Sugah and Domina Divinity style; Sugah was up first, Her stroke with a thick  brown leather strap was audible throughout the dungeon, then I was up. Trying to trump the experienced Goddess' first strike I wound up with My black leather paddle, marked good and bad (I supposed the punishment was both depending on your perspective), and sliced through the air. I landed the paddle perfectly and there was a high pitch note that lingered after I made contact with his flesh. Our game lasted quite a while, then We decided to break out the canes.... Our victim's red angry ass cheeks soon turned to purple, much to the delight of Mistress Sugah and Myself. Our grand finale was 25 strokes each of our favorite tool with all Our strength. Sugah choose Her Big Brown Bat, a long thick wooden paddle emblazoned with Her name. I choose the thick brown leather strap Sugah started with, because I have no favorite tool, My favorite tool is the one I think will cause the most pain in any given moment on any given victim. The air resounded with the sound of with  50 deep fleshy "SMACKS" followed by the sweet high pitched frequency that is almost as musical to My ears of cries of pain. I had a great time, made all the sweeter with the knowledge that the victim will be back with a tender ass in a few days time. Table tennis anyone?

I'm Royal, I'm Royalty, Get in to it
Domina Divinity
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Tuesday, 7 May 2013

Female Supremacy ≠Male Hatred




There is a common misconception that Female Supremacists hate men. Au contraire My friend, though some female supremacists may hate men (I’ve never met one), I love men.  men are beautiful, sensual, strong and provocative, all the more when they are in service to a strong, powerful Female.  I am drawn to men who exude confidence, power and charm, because I know they will afford Me a challenge.  Not only do men present a challenge, but if they’ve honed their masculinity they also present a mystery and an air of passion. A mystery I want to solve in order to captivate them and a passion I want to rein in and stoke on a whim. Therefore, while Women reign Supreme, I see men as one of the indulgences within the realm of Our kingdom. 

I’m Royal, I’m Royalty, Get in to it
Domina Divinity
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,Call Me (Nite Flirt) 1-800-863-5478 EXT. 10381703

Monday, 6 May 2013

Financial Domination

Financial domination is so much more than taking a man's money. While the perks are nice; shopping, trips to the salon and spa, the psychological aspects are much more thrilling. To control a man's money is to have control of his freedom, his power and his lifestyle. To deny yourself in order to give to  Me, you are overcoming your ego, your person-hood. Furthermore, you are internalizing your true place, at My feet, to serve to submit, to be used by Me as I see fit. To start it needn't be a lot, just a bit more than you feel  you have to give. Just so you feel the pinch when you go to treat yourself to some cologne, or that new shirt that will attract the ladies, and you have to tell yourself no, because Domina's needs come first, that's where it begins

I'm Royal, I'm Royalty get in to it
Domina Divinity
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,Call Me (Nite Flirt) 1-800-863-5478 EXT. 10381703

Friday, 3 May 2013

With summer approaching there is an influx of clients at the dungeon. I enjoy this time so much because while I revel in seeing My regulars, pushing their limits and expanding on their fantasy, I thoroughly enjoy meeting new subs and fetishists. A new client brings anticipatory butterflies and the thrill of being able to captivate, tantalize and enrapture somebody new. Furthermore, I get to explore new fantasies and fetishes, some I only get to delve in to on the rare occasion.

I'm Royal, I'm Royalty, get in to it
Divinity
 DominaDivinity@gmail.com to book a session
,Call Me (Nite Flirt) 1-800-863-5478 EXT. 10381703