The psyche of the submissive male

I recently recieved a request to offer insight into the male psyche. Of course I cannot offer a  first hand account  because I am neither male and not particularly submissive. Of course I have encountered many submissive males and in My experience they are motivated  by six  world views/perspectives. They are not necessarily mutually exclusive and sometimes function  in concert. The type A personality in Me wants to be able to list them in a particular order based on prevalence, preference, etc but prevalence is difficult to discern and I have no true preference. All this to say they are listed in no particular order.
#1 The Lover of Women.
This is a male who simply loves Women, all Women; BBW, slender, short, tall, etc. he thinks Women are beautiful creatures Who are deserving of adoration, reverence, worship and service.  he particularly appreciates the dominant Woman because She realizes  this as well and takes full advantage of Her gender status to reap the benefits. he serves because he loves to please his Goddess and see Her well contented. he needs an expressive Domme Who expresses Her pleasure with what he does for Her.

#2 The Female Supremacist
Easily mistaken for The True Lover of Women. However, he not only realizes how wondrous, beautiful and exquisite Woman are, but also believes Women are superior to men in many or all ways. he feels it is his duty as the inferior gender to serve his Superiors. he also looks to the Superior Female to hone him into a more pleasing, gentile individual despite the shortcomings of his gender. he serves because it is his rightful place and duty as a man to submit to the Superior Female. he needs a Domme Who will train him and instruct him in how to control his animalistic male drives and put Her needs above his own.

#3 The Inferior Individual, not to be mistaken for, the Female Supremacist. The inferior individual feels inferior to All, it is his sexual orientation that determines to Whom he will submit. he feels grateful to have a dominant Female to make his worthless existence worthwhile. he is apologetic by nature, he derives self-esteem and purpose from how useful and pleasing he is to his Domina. he serves because he would be nothing without his Domme. he needs a Domme that will give clear instructions, so as to better insure his success. his ideal Domina understands the difference between pride/arrogance and self-esteem  and will foster the latter in Her slave,  knowing he will serve best when he has confidence in his ability to serve Her.

#4 The True submissive, often  thought to have similar deficits in self-esteem to the inferior,    is in fact quite confident in their ability to serve. he choses to serve because it fulfils and pleases him. he gets pleasure  from giving his Domme pleasure through his service. he is not prone to giving his Mistress a laundry list of his wants.  In fact he is versatile in that he derives pleasure from a variety of activities; domestic, pain play, etc. he needs a Domina Who knows what She wants, because he'll do almost anything. The Domina for him is always in control  knowing Her slave is happiest when he is being dominated.

#5 The Dominant on Vacation, is the antithesis of the true submissive. This "submissive"  is  typically dominant at work and sometimes even in their interpersonal relationships. he serves because it is a welcome vacation from domming everyone around him. This so called submissive will not likely serve extensively, they are merely taking a vacation from giving orders by taking orders. For once they don't have to anticipate the next move, because their Mistress is doing it for them. This "submissive"  serves in order to have a reprieve from their responsibilities and daily stressors. This "submissive" needs a strong Mistress Who will put them in their place and shut down any attempts they will make to top from the bottom.

#6 The Paraphiliac/Masochist isn't necessarily submissive, he is submissive to his fixation on his paraphilia or the desire to recieve pain. Regarding paraphilia, in some cases it begins quite simply with shoes, for instance, progressing to a fixation on the foot, then the leg and eventually the actual wearer of the shoes; the Female who dominates him with Her shoes. Regarding masochism, the masochist desires pain and subsequently the dominant Female giving pain. In both cases the "submissive" serves the Domme in order to recieve the desired object/body part or pain. This "submissive" needs a Domme familiar with fetish, Who knows how to introduce a broader spectrum of interests,  stemming from the Paraphilia, in order to also see to Her desires.  The masochist needs a very sadistic Domina who will push their physical and mental pain threshold.

So there you  have it. As I said these world views/ perspectives are not mutually exclusive and in most cases would probably be best illustrated in a Venn diagram, a little from column , a little from column b, so to speak.

Furthermore,  it is worthwhile to mention that while I describe the ideal Domme for each submissive,  ideally he would look for a dynamic Domina who  can adapt Her style, while maintaining Her unique identity as a Dominant, in order to  get the best out of Her  property.

Of course there are male submissives who will argue  they don't have any of the aforementioned perspectives. If that is the case I ask them to contact Me and enlighten Me further on the psyche of the submissive male.....

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Humiliation

I recently did a wonderful call on Talk to me where a caller wanted Me to be his self-deprecating, chastising conscience. I've never done a call or a session like that before; the power of being someone's inner voice made Me swoon. I think that was the most fun I've had humiliating someone over the phone.
Humiliation is a very personal thing.One of My pet peeves? When a client books a session and says I want to be humiliated. Hello? How?? Which is not to say I'm am not a skilled Dominatrix, Humiliatrix and psychological Sadist. However, if I am not familiar with you, how am I to know what makes you feel shame?

• Forced Feminization
• Forced Bi
• Puppy Play
• Diaper Play
• Small Penis Humiliation
• OTK Spanking
• Foot Worship
• Toilet Play
• Forniphilia
• Ass Smotheringor
• Orgasm Denial/Control
• Cuckhold Fantasies
• Financial Domination
• Blackmail
• Verbal Humiliation
•  Racial Slurs
• SPH
• Names like,Loser, Moron, idiot, Worthless,Wimp, etc
• Slut, Bitch, Whore, Cum Dumpster, etc

And this list goes on...
My point being, what works for one may not work for the other. I love humiliating men, even to the point of tears, but if you want to get there, that thrilling feeling of shame and arousal that you yearn for , you have to be honest with yourself and of course with Me.
Ironically, you can't be ashamed of what makes you ashamed or turns you on. Be honest with your Domina, if she is the right Domme for you She wont judge you for what you desire, but when the time is right She will make you feel emasculated, humiliated, belittled, ashamed and oh, so turned on...

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Do's and Don'ts of Anal, Strap-on, Pegging

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My website it officially online and I am booking sessions, on the phone, skype and in real time. I get many requests for many different things (see My previous blog on facesitting). One of the activities men seem to particularly enjoy is anal play, involving butt plugs, strap-on, etc. Fun stuff! I love bending a man over and taking him like a little bitch; powerful, emasculating, demeaning...the things FemDomme dreams are made of! However, before I can show you one of the many things I do better than a man, is pound a hole, there are some things that must  be considered.

1. Do be clean, Don't be lazy!
When Dommes tell you to be clean, we don't mean take a shower. I mean DO take a shower, but We expect you to go the extra mile when you know you'll be doing anal play, go to the pharmacy and buy an enema, please flush yourself out before I go in. Not to make sure you are clean down there before anal play, shows a lack of respect, laziness and an overall lack of cleanliness. When I'm pounding you with My dildo I assume you are clean, I don't like being surprised with fecal matter on My strap-on, belt or clothing. By the way if a Domme says "do you have to go to the bathroom" while she is fucking you, you have fucked up and failed anal play 101!

2. Do be honest, Don't be shy!
There seem to be three different types men, they can be differentiated by how they respond to one question, "have you done anal before". There are the seldom few that are honest, what a breath of fresh air, there are the virgins and there are the super hos. Let Me break it down, if I ask you what your experience level is and you tell Me you are a virgin, I'm going to prepare My smallest toys, I will expect to start very slowly and build My way up over subsequent sessions. So When the virgins arrive in My dungeon and I go to enter a finger and My whole arm slides in, I kinda know somethings up, at this point I don't have the appropriate toys prepared and most importantly I know you are a big slutty liar! Now there are the super hos, they have had the biggest dildos, butt plugs, baseball bats, football teams in their ass, "Domina, I want your biggest dildo, and I want you to fuck Me hard and without mercy". What am I to do but to prepare My biggest toys and expect this slut to be ready to fuck after a very brief warm up, a little less foreplay if you will. So when this super ho gets here and he has a tight little barely fucked hole and he's clenching down on My finger out of fear, I'm going to be disappointed, let's face it I wanted to pound some bo-gina and once again I'm going to know you are a big pansy ass liar! Guys, Dommes aren't judging you, We don't prefer one type over another, both virgins and sluts can be fun, just be honest so We know what to expect in order to insure W/we both have the best time possible.

3. Do be realistic, Don't be a hero
This point is really something you have to come to terms with, within yourself and it is really an extension of point number 2. If you haven't had much experience with anal play, or it's been a while since you've been used like the slut you are, don't expect your Domina/Mistress to be able to fist you the first time She sees you. Yes, your ass stretches, yes it can accommodate very large things, VERY large things, with the right preparation, but it does take preparation. You wont be able to walk in a dungeon and be bent over and have a king dong shoved inside you as soon as you walk in unless you really are a super ho! Remember "Safe, sane, consensual" it is your Domina/Mistress's responsibility to keep you safe, giving you anal fissures and hemorrhoids is not safe.

4. Do relax, Don't stress
So you are in the hands of a skilled Domme (this also means She has put condoms on every instrument She is using in you), you have been honest with Her and you are clean as a whistle, now is not the time to clench your ass up! Obviously this is advice for the novice; if you are clean, you have no fear anything will come out, if you trust that your Domme is skilled and experienced, She will have warmed you up properly, and you have given total disclosure as to your anal play experience, She will be thoughtful in choosing what instrument to fuck your dirty (not really dirty, W/we have discussed this!) little hole. If you clench up on Her as She is entering you, you will cause yourself undo and unnecessary pain/discomfort. Let it happen, relax, if she is having a really hard time entering you, try to push down a bit, this will help you stretch. This is the ONLY time I want you to be relaxed in My presence, otherwise I want you trembling with anticipation and a soupçon of fear!

5. Do participate, Don't be a dead lay!
Guys, do you like when you are doing your damndest to make a girl cum, pounding away with everything you have, moving your hips, rocking and rolling, trying to bring all the motion to the ocean, and she is laying there, half dead or asleep? Didn't think so. Move bitch! I don't want you bent over grabbing your ankles saying "oh fuck Me Domina, harder Domina, I'm a slut Domina", whatever dude! you want to be fucked hard?! you want to be fucked like a bitch?! you want Me deep inside you?! Arch your back, move your hips, take My dick and stroke it with your pussy! I'm the Domme, trust Me, I work hard enough making sure W/we have fun, you do some of the work! There are plenty of sluts who want My dick, His name is Jamal, My dildo that is, and he wont want to fuck you if you are a cold fish!

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The Art of the Mind Fuck

When still a baby, the elephant is tethered by a very thick rope to a stake firmly hammered into the ground. The elephant tries several times to get free, but it lacks the strength to do so.

After a year, the stake and the rope are still strong enough to keep a small elephant tethered, although it continues to try, unsuccessfully, to get free. At this point, the animal realizes that the rope will always be too strong and so it gives up.

When it reaches adulthood, the elephant can still remember how, for a long time, it had wasted its energies trying to escape captivity. At this stage, the trainer can tether the elephant with a slender thread tied to a broom handle, and the elephant will make no attempt to escape to freedom. - Paulo Coelho

The same theory can be applied to psychological domination, once you control the mind, the body will follow. What's more, psychological domination creates a bond between Domme and slave/sub that is so deep, so intimate, so powerful that it is beyond reason. You see, sex in an intimate act, in part because your partner is inside you, or you inside them, therefore imagine what can result when a Fem Domme is in your deepest most intimate parts, not just your sweet little fuck hole, but your mind and soul.

Psychological domination can take many forms, blackmail, humiliation, hypnosis,among other things. Yet the process is usually the same, the skillful Fem Domme seduces, manipulates, torments and controls you, not with physical pain or restraint but by knowing your deepest desires, fears and needs. In some cases She will make you feel as though she can read your mind, you'll feel that you no longer have control of yourself, you'll do and say things, things that are out of character, things that you did not want to do, things you said you'd never do, and you wont know why. 

The reason? Your Domme is not just mind fucking you, she is mind r@ping you. you have relinquished all your control without even knowing it, you'll be emptying accounts, begging for a big hard dick, drinking your Mistress' golden champagne or going to work with a pair of panties under your suit. Anything is possible when you are serving a Divine Goddess that is skilled in the art of the mind fuck, so beware!

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Forniphilia

Human furniture; chairs, footstools, carpets and for more extreme tastes; ashtrays and toilets. Forniphilia creates a wonderful world of fantasy in which nothing, rather no one is what they seem. It feels devilishly naughty to chat with friends, read or watch T.v., while completely ignoring another person. It is delightful being totally socially inappropriate, by pretending someone isn't even there and instead using them as an object, whose purpose is no other than to serve My needs.  Unfortunately, so few submissives can truly make themselves disappear and tend to ruin things by making eye contact, talking, fidgeting or the like. It takes true self control, subservience, focus and dedication to serve as human furniture. Ironically, being human furniture takes a lot of passion and heart.


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Jingle...Balls?! (CBT)



 

 

Little is as precious to a man as his cock and balls are, at best his wallet comes a close second (see My blog on financial domination). This is why I love cbt so much, as you know, if you are a consistent reader of My blogs I have a very cerebral perspective of BDSM and My perspective of cbt is much the same.

As you may know I identify as a sadist, I TRULY enjoy making men suffer either psychological or physical, ideally both.

With cbt I get to bring a man to his knees with a gutteral groan by kicking, punching, kneeing, pinching, flogging, cropping, squeezing, squishing, stomping or burning ( with wax, the violet wand, or for true masochists after my own heart, cigarettes) his cock and balls. Watching a man's eyes well up with tears as I abuse the very essence of their maleness, is one of the most erotic pleasures I enjoy. Cbt can even be pleasurable when, due to geographical constraints, I am forcing a man to punish his own "jewels" over the phone or skype.

The psychological aspect of cbt lays in My belief that men greatly cherish their cock and balls; they symbolize, virility, manhood, identity, power and self-esteem. Conversley, I believe Women derive their identity from their sexuality not their sex organs. This is why men are so fearful, powerless, vulnerable and submissive when a Woman truly has them by the balls. To have a man's cock and balls in My hand, at My mercy is true ownership and power.....mmmm what an aphrodisiac.

 

Happy Holidays and Let's hope you "jingle all the way"

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Goddess Worship, Then and Now

"One of the first religions developed by humans was Goddess worship. Much archaeological evidence have been unearthed which prove the existence of Goddess worship. Merlin Stone, in When God Was a Woman, notes, "Archaeologists have traced the worship of the Goddess back to the Neolithic communities of about 7000 BC, some to the Upper Paleolithic cultures of about 25,000 BC. From the time of its Neolithic origins, its existence was repeatedly attested to until well into Roman times,"

 

The most convincing evidence of Goddess worship comes from numerous sculptures of pregnant women, or faceless women depicted having exaggerated breasts, hips, thighs, buttocks and vulva. These images are referred to by archaeologists as Venus figurines...

These images were not mere decorations to the people who created them. They were profoundly important because they represented the ways which humans expressed themselves before they began to utilise language. The art reveals what the cultures valued and the knowledge they tried to pass on to future generations. Clearly, childbirth, mothering and female sexuality were considered sacred...."(http://coven-of-midnight.wikidot.com/history-of-goddess-worship)

  * Italics are not part of the original script and have been added for emphasis.

Society in general no longer gives the Female the reverence She so richly deserves. Yet a relatively small group of men and Women, still feel that Women should be placed on a pedestal and revered. Female Supremacists, both men and Women, still ensure Women get the respect they warrant as the Mother's of the earth. As a Female Supremacist I believe Women are supreme beings, that should be adored, revered and worshipped. Furthermore, I believe it is the divine duty and privilege of men to serve Women, particularly in this manner.

How should a Female be worshipped? I find it over simplified and self-serving for men to suggest that Women should be served solely through the oral pleasure of Her breasts, vagina, and buttocks/anus, for these are not truly  the most intimate parts of a Female. Serve Me psychologically with  your  most intimate parts, your brain; render your service with devotion, your heart. Perhaps, this is too cerebral or abstract for some men to digest when faced with a Divine Goddess.

 Thus, I will describe the means in which I like to be worshipped in plainer words; bathe my feet with devotion, focus and dedication ( I wrote a blog on foot worship, it will afford you a better idea as to why I think this is such a meaningful act). Wash My hair, brush it, scent it with oils, run My bath, sit subserviently by as I bathe, apply My lotion, all without thinking of your own primal drives and needs.

Show My Divine body, My temple, the reverence it so richly deserves, in a manner which shows Me you respect and idolise Me and you serve without thought for your own needs, desires and drives. Then perhaps you will earn My respect and devotion in turn, and I will allow you the privilege of knowing my more "intimate" parts, of both the soul and the body.

In the end, your great reward will not be the meaningless act of kissing My Superior ass but knowing that you have earned your place down on your knees encountering the Greatness of the Female essence.

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Verbal Humiliation

I love humiliating submissives and slaves in a variety of different ways, puppy training, anal training, forced fem; I love to see a sub's eyes fill with tears of shame and their face redden with embarrassment. However, my favorite type of humiliation is verbal, when I get on the phone with or stand before a submissive and rip him to shreds with just My words I feel and immense, electric form of power (lest we forget power is an aphrodisiac).

When I start going on a tirade...."you are such a cock hungry filthy slut you make me sick, you cumdumpster, waiting for My big black strap-on to rape your holes....." or "you little sissy bitch with your pathetic little teeny weeny, you'll never be able to satisfy a real Woman..." or " you peon, you should be lucky to cower before greatness and beg forgiveness for being a worthless man...", the possibilities are endless, as I lash you with My sharp tongue playing both to your desires and your deepest darkest shames and fears.

Whether you are a sissy slut, cuckhold, a bitch with a small dick or any other form of man who deserves to be shamed into submission, I love mind fucking you until you aren't sure whether you are turned on or victimized. However, I will know it is a potion concocted of both, a Divine potion that will leave you in your rightful place and wanting more!

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Bad Boys Need NOT Apply

A lot of people want to know what it takes to have the opportunity to serve this Divine Goddess as a personal submissive/slave .

•  Step #1: I lose a lot of the fakes, wannabes (but never were's) and slackers at this stage. you have to write an essay about past experience, training, fetishes, expectations, qualifications, etc. Grammar and spelling count.
• Step #2: you receive My rules. Such rules include and are NOT limited to: you must ask permission before socializing, you will walk behind Me in public, you will keep yourself in shape, masturbation and orgasm are a privilege that are earned, etc
• Step #3: you must begin to follow the rules. Any failure without sufficient cause to follow My rules means that training will not be continued and  you have not earned My consideration.
• Step #4 Training. This means you have earned My consideration and I am willing to invest time and energy on you in order to try and mold you into the submissive/slave that I want you to be.
• Step #5 if I am pleased with your progress I will claim you as My own, at which point you will write out a budget of your earnings and expenses and I will calculate how much I expect from you each month. Remember, socializing is a privilege as is imbibing. In other words, if you can't make Me happy by tributing then you cannot afford to go for a beer with the guys or a margarita with the girls!
• Step #6 Don't fuck up! ....

Learn what I like, what I want, what I need. Follow the rules to the point of obsession. Never agree to something you cannot do, but also realize I HATE hearing the word NO. I loathe lazy, inconsistent, flighty,cheap, stubborn, inconsiderate, unintelligent, neglectful, insubordinate submissives/slaves. you signed up for this, I did not wind up on your doorstep and order you to enlist like the united states army! I will not shower you with compliments for remembering how I like My coffee, that is the bare minimum. Compliments are earned, with unexpected treats, surprises and luxuries or outstanding service
you're not going to have sex with Me or go down on Me, you are not My boyfriend, you are My property, jealousy is unattractive, a jealous sub is just plain confused.
You must be honest and open, I am not a mind reader, if you want something or do not like something you have to tell Me. you must trust Me and earn My trust in return. Here's a little secret, I am not made of stone, if you have made it this far, I am probably fond of you and would like you to remain a part of my life, I want us both to enjoy our relationship and have fun...shhhh do not let word get out...

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ABDL Confessions from a sissy

Hellwo,

My name is Cweg (A.K.A.-Pwincess Poopy Pampers) and I've been instwucted by my 2 Mistwesses (Divinity and Sugah) to descwibe in humilwiating baby talk how it feels to be a diaper wearwing thithy.

Unfortunatewy for me, it's wather hard to expwain. How do I descwibe da shame and humilwiation dat comes fwom being an adult male who dwesses wike  a wittle baby girl?  How do I descwibe da fear of knowing dat once thumwun knows my secwet they'll never see me as a man ever again? How do I descwibe da embawassment of having to miss a day of work cuz I had a weally bad case of diaper wrash? And finalwy, how do I descwibe da extweme degwadation and unpweasent feelwing of being made to go doo doo in my diapers??      

The answer is.....I can't!!  Being a thithy baby just isn't thumting dat can be descwibed...it haz to be experwienced!

And unfoetunatewy for me, I'm experwiencing it wight now.  As a punishment for asking to use da toilwet tonight, my mistwesses are making me wite dis wetter while wearwing a pink bonnet, thucking a pink pathifier, and thitting in a verwy thmelly diaper dat says,"Thuper Thithy" on it.

I guess in my case, no twuer words have ever been witten.  Da funny ting is, I never weally thought of mythelf as dat big of a thithy before.

Until wecently, I wuz just your typical avewage man who thpent most of hiz fwee time watching thports, dwinking beer, and going out .  Now don't get me wong, I  thtill wore diapers thumtimes, but it wasn't verwy often and I almost never ever pooped in dem.

At weast dat wuz until I met my Montweal Mistwesses.  Since den, Mistwess Div and Mistwess Sugah have made it dere personal mission to twy and turn me into da biggest pamper pooping pansy dey can.  So inthtead of me maybe wearwing diapers once or twice a month, I'm now thtuck in dem 4 or 5 times a week.

Mistwess Sugah doesn't even twy to contain dere waughter and amusement when it comes to my new thithy baby thtatus. She just teathes me merciwessly and asks me if da diaper wearwing wimp went wee wee or boom boom yet?

As for Mistwess Divinity, she says making me go thtinky diapers is quickly becoming one of her favowit and most entewtaining hobby's she haz.  She says dere's just thumting weally fun and exthiting about having da power to dethide when and where a thithy haz to shit his pants! WOW! (Waugh Out Woud)

And twust me, she does evewyting in her power to make dat expewience as unpweasant and embawassing for me as pothible.  

For example, wast week she made me thquat in da corner and poop my pampers while weciting my thithy mantwa to her.

            Dis is my mantwa I must always confess,

            I'm Divinity's big baby....I'm her poopy pwincess.

            I twy to be a man but dere's weally no chance,

            Weal men don't wear diapers or shit in dere pants!

And if dat wasn't bad enough, tonight she thought it would be hythterical to make me go poopy on da toilwet with my diapers thtill on.

She said," you're da one who keeps asking me if you can go potty on da toilwet wike a big boy, well here's your chance! WOW!" .

I can't even begin to descwibe how incwedibly embawassing and humilwiating it is for a gwown man to have to mess himthelf wike a baby! Dere just isn't a more dithgusting feelwing den thqueezing out a big warm woad of cwap dat has no pwace else to go but inthide of your diaper. Yuck!   And what even made it worse was having to do it while thitting on a perfectwy good toilwet. 

Of courth, Mistwess Divinity couldn't help but waugh at me and my widiculous thituation . She said, "What's da matter Pwincess, don't you feel wike a man now? You said you wanted to go poo poo on da toilwet, and you did! Why are you cwying? I thought you'd be all happy and bwaggimg about how stwong and macho you are now. I mean if I didn't know any better, I would tink you weren't having a verwy good time! Well don't worwy pwincess,  I'm having a gweat time! WOW!"  And dat's how I thpent my Fwiday night!

Well, I guess dat's enough for now.  Wike I said in da beginning, I may not be able to descwibe what it's wike to be a thithy baby but I tink I expwained enough for you to wealize...you never want to be one.  At weast, not one owned by Mistwesses Divinity and Sugah.

Sincerwely,

Pwincess Poopy Pampers

Foot Fetish

The Symbolism of Feet

"Feet represent mobility, independence and freedom. The act of washing someone's feet symbolizes  that others can easily take advantage of you. If someone is kissing your feet, then it symbolizes humbleness, humility, or devotion.  The desire to smell someone else's feet may symbolize  that you are following someone else's path in life. The notion of smelling feet may also carry the same interpretation of kissing feet. In some cultures the feet may symbolize divine qualities since the feet are considered the holiest part of the body."

Why I love Foot Worship
As you can see the act of foot worship is wrought with meaning and symbolism. My feet are My divine grounding, My unwavering roots, My foundation from which My Divine dominating essence arises. To place your self before me on your knees, a most subservient position, in most cultures, you are submitting to My desires, completely devoting and humbling yourself to Me. By washing my feet you are committed to the maintenance of My Divinity. By desiring to smell My feet, (particularly after they are sweating and odoriferous)  you are expressing your desire to follow Me, allowing your path to veer into My path, committing your self to follow wherever I shall lead. By kissing , licking and suckling My feet and toes you are paying homage to a Goddess. The act of foot worship symbolizes your acknowledgement that I am Divine, BDSM royalty and the you are my beloved minion. Thusly, to worship a Goddess' feet is a very intimate, romantic, sensual act wrought with meaning and giving you purpose.

For all you boot and shoe worshipers, I sell My worn shoes and boots, I can make them smelly for you if that's what gets you the most excited, email Me if you are interested.



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Diaper wearers

I love the thought of taking a man and putting him in a pair of Diapers. What could be more humiliating to a grown man than the be debased to a weak, insignificant, helpless baby? I can't think of one, unless it is doing forced feminization; getting the so called man dressed up like a sissy diaper wearer. This is even better. A little pink bonnet, pink bib, that says "Mommy's girl", perhaps a pink pacifier and to top it all off pink frilly rubber pants to put over the diaper. Now here's where people differ, for some subs it's enough to be dressed like this to remind them of the fact that I am superior to them in every way and that their status as a man is negligible at best. Yet some will still proceed with the notion that they are still "macho manly men". At which point I may force them to go in to corner and piss themselves. What a naughty, filthy sissy bitch that would make you! A grown man messing on himself?! The shame you should feel. On the other hand if they are not shamed that too gives me the upper hand, for what kind of perverted piggy takes pleasure in messing himself when there is a supreme Goddess available to shower him with Her golden champagne? A filthy one! Oh the fun you can have with a sub or sissy sub in diapers, next time your sub gives you trouble make him put on a diaper and sleep in his wet soggy diaper, just to remind him whose boss!

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Domina Divinity
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Giddy up bitch!

I love riding a bitch boi's ass like a cowboy. Hog tying him down, putting a leash around his neck and making him wait. Oh the wait is the best part. As a step into my red and black leather strap-on belt, and reach for Jamal, yes my strap-on has a name, he is big and black, long and stiff and can go all night. I'm going to get Jamal in place, get an extra large and tuff condom on him, it never fits just right, Jamal is to beastly to be contained some times. As the bitch boi is hog tied to the table with his knees spread really wide, I'll mount my pet. I've been horse back riding many years but riding a boi like a horse is even more fun. I like to start off slow get you opened up, "you like that don't ya bitch?" the bois usually wriggle on the table, cock loving queers deep down inside. As I insert my lubed up beast in your tight ass hole, slowly inch by inch, smacking your ass hard from time to time just to catch you unaware and thrust it deeper. once the bois ass is all lubed up and he is writhing with pleasure, that's when the fun really starts. Giddy up bitch boy, grabbing your leassh and yanking your head back, "yeehaw!" I ride those bitches hard and deep, "come on slut, you LOOOOOVVVE it!". I ride them until their wet, maybe they wont be the only one whose moist.....

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Panty fetish

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Premature humiliation

I have a regular client,  he is infatuated with Me as a Domme and gratefully submits himself to  all of my commands.....except one, "you will not cum so quickly this time"
It's always the same enjoyable story, he presents himself to Me, nude and begins worshiping My feet and calves, "Whap" strikes 1,  I slap his face " do not touch your pathetic cock" . he continues to worship my feet and calves as I strut around the room, crawling behind Me on the floor will keep his hands busy... Until I pause for a moment and catch him wanking....then comes a barrage of face slaps, left cheek, right cheek, left cheek right cheek, until his ears are ringing and his face is beet red. Some times I opt for some flogging, sometimes more foot worship and when I'm feeling particularly cruel I'll take him with My strap on.....why is that particularly cruel? Because it makes it even more difficult to control himself. you may ask, "Domina, why don't you cuff his hands?" The answer is simple, after 10 minutes he usually cums and after paying for an hour of My precious time AND the humiliation of not being able to control himself in My company (after being My regular for so long) causes the most pathetic, shamed, discouraged look to spread across his face as he scurries from My presence and that look makes My Domme neurons fire

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Sadistic Saturday had come again

When you live in a dungeon and you and your Mother are Dominatrixs a relaxing Saturday takes on a whole new meaning.

This Saturday We invited a sub over for a special treat. We started by cuffing him to the St. Andrew's Cross and for flogging. We each choose Our instrument of choice I quickly choose a flogger that is appreciatively nicknamed the stinger, I didn't want Mistress Brown Sugah to get the stinger before I did. Small and unassuming the stinger, not only stings like a mother but leaves pretty speckled purple streaks on the subs body, that make My Domina heart go pitter patter. Sugah started warming up the skin with a thick leather whip, a beautiful that grips the skin. Once the subs skin was a flushed health red it was time to move on.

The spanking bench at the Sugah Shack is a great tool, you can cuff hands and feet to it, the sub is thus powerless with their ass in the air, a very alluring sight to a True Sadistic Heart. We started with wooden paddles on his ass, but wanting to switch things up,  We moved on to a heavy wooden hair brushes and wooden spoons. I threw down a great beat with my wooden spoons, one in each hand. Next, the wooden hair brush left big red oblong shaped welts, I love to see the different reactions skin has to a Domme's weapons of mass destruction! Then the alcohol came, Sugah love's to gives sub's a nice spritz of alcohol on their battered skin, not only does it disinfect but it offers the subs abused ass a plethora of different sensations.

Finally came spanking, not much of a spanker Myself the challenge came for Me by trying to keep up with Mistress Brown Sugah's hands of steel. I've seen people beg Mistress Sugah for a spanking and very soon after beg Her to stop, I've yet to meet a sub that could withstand Mistress Brown Sugah's hands without having first developed a very tough ass! The subs challenge was simply to make it through to the end. Sugah would swat the sub "1,2", in turn I would smack "1,2", Sugah would swat the sub up and down I would swat up and down and so on. Thankfully, the sub begged for mercy just before I had to, My hands were hot and red, though not as hot and red as his ass. I'm going to have to book myself more spanking sessions to I can build up some tenacity, maybe I'll start light......is anyone up for an hour of face slapping?

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Domina Divinity

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Cuckhold Fantasy

Did a cuckhold role play this morning. Of course Ours is a no sex no nudity dungeon so I had to be really creative. I pretended to be his loving wife who was headed out to Her second swinger's party. What fun I had describe My previous clandestine adventure, with a sexy, built extremely well endowed stranger. My imagination is so vivid I describe the sexy outfit I had on, the butterflies I had in my stomach and of course the mind blowing intimacy I had with this stranger. I then explained to My "husband" that I was planning on having My male friend over this evening and I expected us to be the most gracious hosts. My "husband" offering his "wife" and his mouth to our guest. I had him practice on a strap-on what it would be like to give a man a blow job and finally had him taste his own load for "practice". I love role play, it is all about the psychological and emotional. Minimum (physical) effort, Maximum efficiency.

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Vacuum bed

This Saturday, I decided to grab a coffee and peak in on Mistress Sugah's class. There was a demonstration of our new vacuum bed. A very willing, playful sub was already in the bed. We started with him laying face up in the bed, once we had him there We were at a bit of a loss of what to do with him, trampling or maybe queening but We were all in a much more sadistic mood, so we had him go face down in the bed. Once face down he had his back and ass exposed to Us and the vacuum bed had him pretty much immobile. That's when We started flogging him, "the sting is gone Mistress, I feel the impact but not the sting". Challenge accepted!! We starting by using heavier floggers and crops to no avail. Then we moved on to more rigid instruments, a long shoehorn, Manhattan Correction Stick and Acrylic Paddles, the sting was back. The slave's ass was getting heated and he was starting to "feel the burn", no pain no gain after all. Then I found it, a small wooden paddle, a very unassuming compact piece that fit perfectly in My hand. A few light swats, paced perfectly to allow the sting from the prior stroke to linger. That small tool did a lot of damage, and I loved it. Walking around the bed for an hour choosing My perfect position, so as to evenly abuse his ass. I was thrilled to see what his ass looked like under the layer of shiny black latex. He tried to wriggle and writhe away from My punishment, restricted by the vacuum bed, but there was no where to run. After an hour or more watching him emerge from the bed was a thrill, like unwrapping a Christmas present. His ass wasn't as beat up as I had hoped, that thin sheet of latex was quite the protection. I'll get him better next time, can't wait to see what emerges from the bed then!

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Forced Feminization

Had a forced-fem session yesterday. I love turning macho men into girly-girls, baby-girls, housewives, sissy-maids and the like. Whether for humiliation purposes, or to help them get in touch with their inner female, powerful in her sexuality and femininity and yet having to overcome archaic notions of a weak damsel in distress.
We started with make-up, I decided this boy was going to get turned in to a bitch, a classy, sassy woman that oozes sexuality and knows how to use it. I had to hide his 5-o'clock shadow with a stage-makeup cover up, I highlighted his cheekbones, thinned his nose and narrowed the square manly edges of his forehead. Next I did a smokey eye, in various shades of blues and charcoals. I then applied eyeliner to give him seductive almond shaped eyes and thickening lengthening mascara.
Next was the hair, I choose a shoulder length dark bob that was both classy and edgy and mussed it up, just like a girl going to party with her girlfriends would, hair that said "I have a wild side".
Next was the clothing; I choose sheer black thigh high stockings with lace, lacy black Fredrick's of Hollywood panties (My favorite), a leather mini-skirt and a black pvc corset and black patent leather stilettos.
Sitting in front of me was a girl, but we all know that what makes a woman is how she walks, talks and moves. First speaking lessons. In order to train the bitch in front of me to speak like a girl I had him count and say thank you Domina and  administered a severe flogging, "1, thank you Domina", "2, thank you Domina" once we had arrived at 50 my creation's voice was sufficiently feminine.
Next was posture, I had him parade around the room in his stilettos with a book on his head. I kept the stride rhythm with a paddle against my palm, a stumble would warrant a strike with my paddle. He struggles most with walking with an elegant lady like stride, this lesson took more than an hour.
Walking in high-heeled shoes requires rhythm so I but on some music. Sometimes when a sissy slut gets a feel for his newly shaped hips and long elegant legs they carry themselves with more poise. So I put my two favorite forced-fem training songs, Brick House and Walk This  Way, on repeat and sat back to watch a burlesque show. Stilted and awkward at first his movements began to flow more, become more smooth intentional and seductive. Whether smoking a cigarette, strolling down the block or sipping Chardonnay, a true Woman's every move is intentional and deliberate, we are Mistresses of seduction.
By the four hour mark my pupil was coming along nicely but no where near feminine enough to have Me put on My strap-on. We'll see how the next lesson goes and maybe if he makes some improvement he will warrant some training  in the art of giving fellatio and "taking IT" like a woman. Stay Tuned

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Domina Dolce Divinity

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Pedicure & New Shoes

I love being a Domme, one of the perks are at home pedicures and the gift of new shoes. All you subbies/slaves out there, the key to a Woman's heart is through Her Feet

Domina Divinity

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