Showing posts with label psychological domination. Show all posts
Showing posts with label psychological domination. Show all posts

Tuesday, 8 September 2015

Humiliation

Domina Divinity
I recently did a wonderful call on Talk to me where a caller wanted Me to be his self-deprecating, chastising conscience. I've never done a call or a session like that before; the power of being someone's inner voice made Me swoon. I think that was the most fun I've had humiliating someone over the phone.
Humiliation is a very personal thing.One of My pet peeves? When a client books a session and says I want to be humiliated. Hello? How?? Which is not to say I'm am not a skilled Dominatrix, Humiliatrix and psychological Sadist. However, if I am not familiar with you, how am I to know what makes you feel shame?
  • Forced Feminization
  • Forced Bi
  • Puppy Play
  • Diaper Play
  • Small Penis Humiliation
  • OTK Spanking
  • Foot Worship
  • Toilet Play
  • Forniphilia
  • Ass Smotheringor
  • Orgasm Denial/Control
  • Cuckhold Fantasies
  • Financial Domination
  • Blackmail
  • Verbal Humiliation
    •  Racial Slurs
    • SPH
    • Names like,Loser, Moron, idiot, Worthless,Wimp, etc
    • Slut, Bitch, Whore, Cum Dumpster, etc
And this list goes on...
My point being, what works for one may not work for the other. I love humiliating men, even to the point of tears, but if you want to get there, that thrilling feeling of shame and arousal that you yearn for , you have to be honest with yourself and of course with Me.
Ironically, you can't be ashamed of what makes you ashamed or turns you on. Be honest with your Domina, if she is the right Domme for you She wont judge you for what you desire, but when the time is right She will make you feel emasculated, humiliated, belittled, ashamed and oh, so turned on...

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Friday, 12 June 2015

The Art of the Mind Fuck


When still a baby, the elephant is tethered by a very thick rope to a stake firmly hammered into the ground. The elephant tries several times to get free, but it lacks the strength to do so.
After a year, the stake and the rope are still strong enough to keep a small elephant tethered, although it continues to try, unsuccessfully, to get free. At this point, the animal realizes that the rope will always be too strong and so it gives up.
When it reaches adulthood, the elephant can still remember how, for a long time, it had wasted its energies trying to escape captivity. At this stage, the trainer can tether the elephant with a slender thread tied to a broom handle, and the elephant will make no attempt to escape to freedom. - Paulo Coelho
The same theory can be applied to psychological domination, once you control the mind, the body will follow. What's more, psychological domination creates a bond between Domme and slave/sub that is so deep, so intimate, so powerful that it is beyond reason. You see, sex in an intimate act, in part because your partner is inside you, or you inside them, therefore imagine what can result when a Fem Domme is in your deepest most intimate parts, not just your sweet little fuck hole, but your mind and soul.
Psychological domination can take many forms, blackmail, humiliation, hypnosis,among other things. Yet the process is usually the same, the skillful Fem Domme seduces, manipulates, torments and controls you, not with physical pain or restraint but by knowing your deepest desires, fears and needs. In some cases She will make you feel as though she can read your mind, you'll feel that you no longer have control of yourself, you'll do and say things, things that are out of character, things that you did not want to do, things you said you'd never do, and you wont know why. 
The reason? Your Domme is not just mind fucking you, she is mind r@ping you. you have relinquished all your control without even knowing it, you'll be emptying accounts, begging for a big hard dick, drinking your Mistress' golden champagne or going to work with a pair of panties under your suit. Anything is possible when you are serving a Divine Goddess that is skilled in the art of the mind fuck, so beware!
I'm Royal, I'm Royalty, Get in to it,
Domina Divinity

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Thursday, 26 March 2015

Forniphilia


Human furniture; chairs, footstools, carpets and for more extreme tastes; ashtrays and toilets. Forniphilia creates a wonderful world of fantasy in which nothing, rather no one is what they seem. It feels devilishly naughty to chat with friends, read or watch T.v., while completely ignoring another person. It is delightful being totally socially inappropriate, by pretending someone isn't even there and instead using them as an object, whose purpose is no other than to serve My needs.  Unfortunately, so few submissives can truly make themselves disappear and tend to ruin things by making eye contact, talking, fidgeting or the like. It takes true self control, subservience, focus and dedication to serve as human furniture. Ironically, being human furniture takes a lot of passion and heart.


I'm Royal, I'm Royalty, Get in to it,
Domina Divinity
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Tuesday, 23 December 2014

Jingle...Balls?! (CBT)



 
 
Little is as precious to a man as his cock and balls are, at best his wallet comes a close second (see My blog on financial domination). This is why I love cbt so much, as you know, if you are a consistent reader of My blogs I have a very cerebral perspective of BDSM and My perspective of cbt is much the same.
As you may know I identify as a sadist, I TRULY enjoy making men suffer either psychological or physical, ideally both.
With cbt I get to bring a man to his knees with a gutteral groan by kicking, punching, kneeing, pinching, flogging, cropping, squeezing, squishing, stomping or burning ( with wax, the violet wand, or for true masochists after my own heart, cigarettes) his cock and balls. Watching a man's eyes well up with tears as I abuse the very essence of their maleness, is one of the most erotic pleasures I enjoy. Cbt can even be pleasurable when, due to geographical constraints, I am forcing a man to punish his own "jewels" over the phone or skype.
The psychological aspect of cbt lays in My belief that men greatly cherish their cock and balls; they symbolize, virility, manhood, identity, power and self-esteem. Conversley, I believe Women derive their identity from their sexuality not their sex organs. This is why men are so fearful, powerless, vulnerable and submissive when a Woman truly has them by the balls. To have a man's cock and balls in My hand, at My mercy is true ownership and power.....mmmm what an aphrodisiac.
 
Happy Holidays and Let's hope you "jingle all the way"
I'm Royal, I'm Royalty, Get in to it,
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Friday, 14 November 2014

Goddess Worship, Then and Now

"One of the first religions developed by humans was Goddess worship. Much archaeological evidence have been unearthed which prove the existence of Goddess worship. Merlin Stone, in When God Was a Woman, notes, "Archaeologists have traced the worship of the Goddess back to the Neolithic communities of about 7000 BC, some to the Upper Paleolithic cultures of about 25,000 BC. From the time of its Neolithic origins, its existence was repeatedly attested to until well into Roman times,"
 
The most convincing evidence of Goddess worship comes from numerous sculptures of pregnant women, or faceless women depicted having exaggerated breasts, hips, thighs, buttocks and vulva. These images are referred to by archaeologists as Venus figurines...
These images were not mere decorations to the people who created them. They were profoundly important because they represented the ways which humans expressed themselves before they began to utilise language. The art reveals what the cultures valued and the knowledge they tried to pass on to future generations. Clearly, childbirth, mothering and female sexuality were considered sacred...."(http://coven-of-midnight.wikidot.com/history-of-goddess-worship)
  * Italics are not part of the original script and have been added for emphasis.

Society in general no longer gives the Female the reverence She so richly deserves. Yet a relatively small group of men and Women, still feel that Women should be placed on a pedestal and revered. Female Supremacists, both men and Women, still ensure Women get the respect they warrant as the Mother's of the earth. As a Female Supremacist I believe Women are supreme beings, that should be adored, revered and worshipped. Furthermore, I believe it is the divine duty and privilege of men to serve Women, particularly in this manner.

How should a Female be worshipped? I find it over simplified and self-serving for men to suggest that Women should be served solely through the oral pleasure of Her breasts, vagina, and buttocks/anus, for these are not truly  the most intimate parts of a Female. Serve Me psychologically with  your  most intimate parts, your brain; render your service with devotion, your heart. Perhaps, this is too cerebral or abstract for some men to digest when faced with a Divine Goddess.

 Thus, I will describe the means in which I like to be worshipped in plainer words; bathe my feet with devotion, focus and dedication ( I wrote a blog on foot worship, it will afford you a better idea as to why I think this is such a meaningful act). Wash My hair, brush it, scent it with oils, run My bath, sit subserviently by as I bathe, apply My lotion, all without thinking of your own primal drives and needs.

Show My Divine body, My temple, the reverence it so richly deserves, in a manner which shows Me you respect and idolise Me and you serve without thought for your own needs, desires and drives. Then perhaps you will earn My respect and devotion in turn, and I will allow you the privilege of knowing my more "intimate" parts, of both the soul and the body.

In the end, your great reward will not be the meaningless act of kissing My Superior ass but knowing that you have earned your place down on your knees encountering the Greatness of the Female essence.

I'm Royal, I'm Royalty, Get in to it,
Domina Divinity
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Thursday, 23 October 2014

Verbal Humiliation


I love humiliating submissives and slaves in a variety of different ways, puppy training, anal training, forced fem; I love to see a sub's eyes fill with tears of shame and their face redden with embarrassment. However, my favorite type of humiliation is verbal, when I get on the phone with or stand before a submissive and rip him to shreds with just My words I feel and immense, electric form of power (lest we forget power is an aphrodisiac).

When I start going on a tirade...."you are such a cock hungry filthy slut you make me sick, you cumdumpster, waiting for My big black strap-on to rape your holes....." or "you little sissy bitch with your pathetic little teeny weeny, you'll never be able to satisfy a real Woman..." or " you peon, you should be lucky to cower before greatness and beg forgiveness for being a worthless man...", the possibilities are endless, as I lash you with My sharp tongue playing both to your desires and your deepest darkest shames and fears.

Whether you are a sissy slut, cuckhold, a bitch with a small dick or any other form of man who deserves to be shamed into submission, I love mind fucking you until you aren't sure whether you are turned on or victimized. However, I will know it is a potion concocted of both, a Divine potion that will leave you in your rightful place and wanting more!

I'm Royal, I'm Royalty, Get in to it!
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